I ignore unwanted attention and try to just be polite. I wear a lot of sunglasses and headphones when out and about. It helps with pretending not to hear.

Yesterday in the Philly airport my azz made quite a stir. Not sure why but enough for me to notice it and according to my friends I never notice the impact the size of my azz has over most people I come in contact with. *lol*

-OG

I seriously doubt whether there’s an explanation as to why most men are drawn to a phat ass. There are some things that just can’t be explained, and to me this is one of them. I will say though, that not all phat booty is attractive. I mean, there’s a phat booty, and then there’s a FAT woman with a booty….BIG DIFFERENCE.

Oh and when dude called you Ms. Phat Booty, you shoulda responded, “Hey Lil Dick how ya doin??”

After joining the weight lifting team, I started to put on muscle weight and my butt appeared out of nowhere. I can’t tell you how self conscious I was. No one knew my body had changed like this until I showed up to Junior Homecoming in a catsuit, and it’s like the floodgates of male hell broke loose. I hated the attention.

Every once in a while, you get that appreciative nod that makes you feel good…but other than that it’s just a bother to me.

Men will continue to be the way that they are as long as there are women that love it… I know plenty of women who love it when men act like asses.. They play around like they don’t, but you know the type…

All I know is if I get the chance to see your behind – you wouldn’t know that I sized it every which way lol…

Let me put this big boy in yo life…lol

And yes, I think she was a working girl=your type of girl! lol

A man finally admits that men are pigs..lol

Being that I know you personally, I don’t see you as the disrespectful type…but I did catch you taking a few looks at women a couple of years back in Atlantic City. (Insert dumb stare) Yeah, you didn’t think I remembered that huh? lol

I’m slick with mine….I damn near NEVER get caught. And usually if imma lookin, imma likin…..

I mean there has been the occasional “DAMNNNNN” thats slipped out loud…lol….but I try to keep it in and the disrespect to a minimum.

Italian girls don’t have fatty’s anyway, so when I see ‘em, I gotta say somethin! lol

If he hopped out of a Range Rover and had nice clothes on and his name was Mike and he was Italian from NY, those said panties would be dropped…..for real! lol

It’s just like when you see a pretty face, it draws you in and you’re attracted to it.

I like mine where you can set a drink on it, without it spilling.

Some men have no tact at all nowadays. I think for now on, I’m just going to start staring and pointing at their crotches, then laugh at it. LOL!

I understand where you are coming from because my sister and I are well endowed on the backside. Actually my sister is well endowed in the breasts as well. I wasn’t given voluptuous breasts and I am quite fine with that. My “fat booty” grabs enough unwanted attention. My mother has no booty, but large breasts. I mean she really is flat as a board. I always joke with her when I see women of other races with a “fat booty”. I say “Ooh mama, look! She stole your booty.”

I am self conscious of my “fat booty” or maybe not. It’s just that I don’t want to be preyed upon like a piece of meat. In school I was called “Big Booty Bridget” by young boys who thought it was cool to “flirt” that way. I, on the other hand, was left a little scarred because I didn’t know how to accept my butt as a part of myself. I always thought guys just wanted to talk to me because I had a “fat booty”. Then I grew older and my booty was still all the rage and the envy of all of my friends because it had a small waist to go along with it. And yes the guys still loved it (and still do), but I am still trying to accept it. I still wear my shirts on the outside as a concealer. LOL! I don’t think that it is okay that we would have to try to cover ourselves. Guys just need to SHUT UP and keep all inappropriate comments to themselves. It’s like they be on “fat booty duty”, out to find all all the ladies with fat asses. So not right! I just want to say “Stop drooling because it doesn’t look good on you. And furthermore, this booty is taken. Go find your own.” But I digress and just give a stupid look. Some things are better left unsaid.