Comments on: From Play Dates to First Date http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/ :adj characterized by originality, modishness & unconventionality Tue, 16 Mar 2010 03:53:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Berriblk http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-4042 Berriblk Tue, 29 Sep 2009 08:58:05 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-4042 "My mother ruled her house with an iron fist when I was growing up. We dared not to mention anything about liking boys or wanting to go out on dates. "<br><br>Same here...in fact now she's begging for grandkids and thinks men and marriages appear out of thin air. lol<br><br>I didnt have my first date until my senior year in HS at 18. Although, I'm still debating on whether or not I missed out on anything. I am finishing up college now and I think those integral years of adolescence when I was supposed to be honing my [romantic] social skills with the opposite sex was kind of lost. Don't get me wrong I didn't and still don't want to be a "fast girl"... just less awkward lol<br><br>Although my mother and fathers parenting style has kept me and my siblings out of trouble it definitely needs a little tweaking to bring some form of balance, so I'll be sure to keep that in mind one day if I have my own kids. “My mother ruled her house with an iron fist when I was growing up. We dared not to mention anything about liking boys or wanting to go out on dates. “

Same here…in fact now she's begging for grandkids and thinks men and marriages appear out of thin air. lol

I didnt have my first date until my senior year in HS at 18. Although, I'm still debating on whether or not I missed out on anything. I am finishing up college now and I think those integral years of adolescence when I was supposed to be honing my [romantic] social skills with the opposite sex was kind of lost. Don't get me wrong I didn't and still don't want to be a “fast girl”… just less awkward lol

Although my mother and fathers parenting style has kept me and my siblings out of trouble it definitely needs a little tweaking to bring some form of balance, so I'll be sure to keep that in mind one day if I have my own kids.

]]> By: Berriblk http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3692 Berriblk Tue, 29 Sep 2009 03:58:05 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3692 "My mother ruled her house with an iron fist when I was growing up. We dared not to mention anything about liking boys or wanting to go out on dates. "<br><br>Same here...in fact now she's begging for grandkids and thinks men and marriages appear out of thin air. lol<br><br>I didnt have my first date until my senior year in HS at 18. Although, I'm still debating on whether or not I missed out on anything. I am finishing up college now and I think those integral years of adolescence when I was supposed to be honing my [romantic] social skills with the opposite sex was kind of lost. Don't get me wrong I didn't and still don't want to be a "fast girl"... just less awkward lol<br><br>Although my mother and fathers parenting style has kept me and my siblings out of trouble it definitely needs a little tweaking to bring some form of balance, so I'll be sure to keep that in mind one day if I have my own kids. “My mother ruled her house with an iron fist when I was growing up. We dared not to mention anything about liking boys or wanting to go out on dates. “

Same here…in fact now she's begging for grandkids and thinks men and marriages appear out of thin air. lol

I didnt have my first date until my senior year in HS at 18. Although, I'm still debating on whether or not I missed out on anything. I am finishing up college now and I think those integral years of adolescence when I was supposed to be honing my [romantic] social skills with the opposite sex was kind of lost. Don't get me wrong I didn't and still don't want to be a “fast girl”… just less awkward lol

Although my mother and fathers parenting style has kept me and my siblings out of trouble it definitely needs a little tweaking to bring some form of balance, so I'll be sure to keep that in mind one day if I have my own kids.

]]> By: kweenkiwi http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3673 kweenkiwi Sun, 27 Sep 2009 02:41:29 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3673 Wow, watch that Ayanna. LOL I can remember having a "boyfriend" in 1st grade. I paid that dude a bag of popcorn to be my man...is there a surprise that he'd try and renege after eating the bag? LMAO<br><br>After that, I learned not to hold hands, call a boy my boyfriend, or be nice to their raggedy asses for a long time. haha! I think that even though it was innocent I still learned quickly how to view little boys...and I think the same thing goes for the way little girls are viewed by little innocent displays of curiosity. Without a doubt, the Kid will date...it's just a matter of time...but, I think with you as a mom, opening the lines of communication and showing him what's respectable...he'll do fine. Wow, watch that Ayanna. LOL I can remember having a “boyfriend” in 1st grade. I paid that dude a bag of popcorn to be my man…is there a surprise that he'd try and renege after eating the bag? LMAO

After that, I learned not to hold hands, call a boy my boyfriend, or be nice to their raggedy asses for a long time. haha! I think that even though it was innocent I still learned quickly how to view little boys…and I think the same thing goes for the way little girls are viewed by little innocent displays of curiosity. Without a doubt, the Kid will date…it's just a matter of time…but, I think with you as a mom, opening the lines of communication and showing him what's respectable…he'll do fine.

]]> By: BeezHunny http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3671 BeezHunny Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:13:56 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3671 Can I hit 'er with water balloons until she retreats? She needs to be nipped in the bud NOW! :) Can I hit 'er with water balloons until she retreats? She needs to be nipped in the bud NOW! :)

]]> By: Wizzy Jr. http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3668 Wizzy Jr. Tue, 22 Sep 2009 21:24:42 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3668 I'm just SAYIN! I'm just SAYIN!

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3667 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:45:47 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3667 I'm going to assume she wasn't speaking of all little girls..but like I said to her, there are some out there who are a lot fresher than others...and you can only blame it on the parents. I'm going to assume she wasn't speaking of all little girls..but like I said to her, there are some out there who are a lot fresher than others…and you can only blame it on the parents.

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3666 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:45:03 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3666 That is true..maybe she didn't..but I'm still keeping her at arms length for now on lol That is true..maybe she didn't..but I'm still keeping her at arms length for now on lol

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3665 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:44:29 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3665 You are not allowed to fight the kids! lol You are not allowed to fight the kids! lol

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3664 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:44:06 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3664 LMAO @ ugly! SOOO WRONG! LMAO @ ugly! SOOO WRONG!

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3663 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:43:43 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3663 I've seen that video as well..it's quite scary. They're learning it from somewhere. I've seen that video as well..it's quite scary. They're learning it from somewhere.

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3662 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:43:06 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3662 I think there are little girls that are a little more 'fresh' than others...but not all of them are like that...at least I know my sisters & I weren't growing up. I think there are little girls that are a little more 'fresh' than others…but not all of them are like that…at least I know my sisters & I weren't growing up.

]]> By: kristen http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3661 kristen Tue, 22 Sep 2009 15:27:53 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3661 what so all little girls corrupt sweet innocent little boys? please!<br><br> a kiss is a kiss is a kiss<br><br>"Little girls are the WORST! She seems like she's going to be a handful eventually, if not already."<br><br>dude that's totally sexist what so all little girls corrupt sweet innocent little boys? please!

a kiss is a kiss is a kiss

“Little girls are the WORST! She seems like she's going to be a handful eventually, if not already.”

dude that's totally sexist

]]> By: Jasmine? http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3660 Jasmine? Tue, 22 Sep 2009 02:53:15 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3660 I had my first kiss at 8 and didn't like it! LoL, maybe Ayanna didn't like it either. One can only hope that she retains her innocence and let's your son keep his too! :) I had my first kiss at 8 and didn't like it! LoL, maybe Ayanna didn't like it either. One can only hope that she retains her innocence and let's your son keep his too! :)

]]> By: Tha Connoisseur http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3659 Tha Connoisseur Tue, 22 Sep 2009 02:50:59 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3659 Hmmm, I still stand by my past statement. That little girl is too FAST. <br><br>She and I gonna have to fight.<br><br>Wait, did I say that out loud?<br><br>That is all. Hmmm, I still stand by my past statement. That little girl is too FAST.

She and I gonna have to fight.

Wait, did I say that out loud?

That is all.

]]> By: Wizzy Jr. http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3658 Wizzy Jr. Mon, 21 Sep 2009 20:15:07 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3658 "Get a Girl, Catch a girl", "Hide and Go FREAK"...ALL THAT SHIT!! BOY, do I remember them days. *SMDH*. I ain't play often because most the girls who wanted to play with me was ugly. “Get a Girl, Catch a girl”, “Hide and Go FREAK”…ALL THAT SHIT!! BOY, do I remember them days. *SMDH*. I ain't play often because most the girls who wanted to play with me was ugly.

]]> By: Wizzy Jr. http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3657 Wizzy Jr. Mon, 21 Sep 2009 20:14:08 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3657 Nowadays, giving HEAD is a kiss. *SMDH*. Well, it kinda was back in the days but you just ain't hear about it. It's more OUT there now. 10 years old, tho? That's when the questions start about sex and the whole nine. I was school when I was 9..first by my homies (they were like 5 years older than me) then by my mother. As you can imagine, I got different lessons. <br><br>But you don't have to worry about nothin'. I'm sure you son is a good kid and won't wanna do nothin' to make his Mama snap his neck. Nowadays, giving HEAD is a kiss. *SMDH*. Well, it kinda was back in the days but you just ain't hear about it. It's more OUT there now. 10 years old, tho? That's when the questions start about sex and the whole nine. I was school when I was 9..first by my homies (they were like 5 years older than me) then by my mother. As you can imagine, I got different lessons.

But you don't have to worry about nothin'. I'm sure you son is a good kid and won't wanna do nothin' to make his Mama snap his neck.

]]> By: [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3656 [fung'ke] [blak] [chik] Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:26:20 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3656 Nope, not when I was 10...I wasn't one of those 'fast-tail' girls, which was what my grandmother referred to them as...lol! Nope, not when I was 10…I wasn't one of those 'fast-tail' girls, which was what my grandmother referred to them as…lol!

]]> By: micheleava http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3655 micheleava Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:20:10 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3655 Esha you didn't get your first kiss when you were 10. Thats when it all starts. You didn't play get a girl catch a girl. Esha you didn't get your first kiss when you were 10. Thats when it all starts. You didn't play get a girl catch a girl.

]]> By: msgirlygirl79 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3654 msgirlygirl79 Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:16:43 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3654 Oh lawd lol....sounds like a hot momma!! Oh lawd lol….sounds like a hot momma!!

]]> By: ASSATA009 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3653 ASSATA009 Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:12:33 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3653 HAHAHA!! THIS IS FUNNY BUT AT THE SAME TIME..THESE LITTLE GIRLS COMING UP NOW ARE MORE FRESH THAN THE BOYS..IT BOTHERS ME!!. I RECENTLY HAD A VIDEO SENT TO ME THAT REALLY BOUGHT MY ATTENTION. THERE WERE HISPANIC KIDS AT A PARTY ABD THE PARENTS WERE AT THE PARTY AS WELL AND THESE KIDS WERE GIRATING ON EACH OTHER. MIND YOU THE KIDS ARE ABOUT 5-7 YRS OLD RANGE. SO WHAT THESE KIDS ARE DOING, THEY MUST BEING SEEING THIS SOMEWHERE OR FROM SOMEONE AND THEY THINK ITS OKAY BUT ITS NOT!!!..SO THE GENERATION NOW THATS COMING UP IM SCARED FOR THEM. ITS ALL IN THE PARENTING AND THE RELATIONSHIP BOND THAT YOU HAVE WITH YOUR KIDS. HAHAHA!! THIS IS FUNNY BUT AT THE SAME TIME..THESE LITTLE GIRLS COMING UP NOW ARE MORE FRESH THAN THE BOYS..IT BOTHERS ME!!. I RECENTLY HAD A VIDEO SENT TO ME THAT REALLY BOUGHT MY ATTENTION. THERE WERE HISPANIC KIDS AT A PARTY ABD THE PARENTS WERE AT THE PARTY AS WELL AND THESE KIDS WERE GIRATING ON EACH OTHER. MIND YOU THE KIDS ARE ABOUT 5-7 YRS OLD RANGE. SO WHAT THESE KIDS ARE DOING, THEY MUST BEING SEEING THIS SOMEWHERE OR FROM SOMEONE AND THEY THINK ITS OKAY BUT ITS NOT!!!..SO THE GENERATION NOW THATS COMING UP IM SCARED FOR THEM. ITS ALL IN THE PARENTING AND THE RELATIONSHIP BOND THAT YOU HAVE WITH YOUR KIDS.

]]> By: Stacy South http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/2009/09/21/from-play-dates-to-first-date/comment-page-1/#comment-3652 Stacy South Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:01:11 +0000 http://www.fungkeblakchik.com/?p=1572#comment-3652 Little girls are the WORST! She seems like she's going to be a handful eventually, if not already. Little girls are the WORST! She seems like she's going to be a handful eventually, if not already.

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